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Grandparents, aunts and uncles often feel a step removed from the apps and group chats shaping the kids in their family’s lives. Understanding how teen friendships work today can help you be the trusted adult a young person turns to.

How is social media changing teen friendships today?

Social media gives teens more ways to stay in touch through messaging, video calls and online interactions, even when they aren’t together at school. The same tools can also expose them to drama, comparison and exclusion.

A 2025 Pew Research Center survey found that 74% of teens say social media makes them feel more connected to their friends’ lives, while 39% feel overwhelmed by online drama and 31% feel excluded by friends. The American Psychological Association says social media is not inherently beneficial or harmful. Its effects depend on content, individual vulnerabilities and how platforms are used.

Why do friendships matter so much during adolescence?

Changes in the adolescent brain make teenagers increasingly attentive to their social worlds, says Wayne State University psychology professor Hannah Schacter. Friendships give teens space to develop social skills, learn emotional competencies and explore identity.

A 2025 Pew Research Center survey found that 98% of teens have at least one close friend, and among those teens, 89% have a friend they can turn to for emotional support. That heightened sensitivity helps explain why friendship wins and losses carry such weight in these years.

How do good and bad peer experiences affect teen mental health?

Strong, positive friendships are associated with lower risks of depression, anxiety, physical health symptoms and academic difficulties, Schacter says. Bullying, exclusion and rejection can take a real emotional toll, especially when teens struggle to form reliable friendships.

The Child Mind Institute notes that losing a close friendship can be emotionally painful for young people, and urges adults to take those experiences seriously rather than brushing them off.

What should you know when a grandchild’s friendship falls apart?

Friendship problems that look small to adults can feel overwhelming to teens because of their heightened sensitivity to peer relationships. Minimizing those feelings, Schacter warns, is one of the mistakes adults make when trying to help.

Child Mind Institute guidance recommends listening to a teen’s feelings rather than jumping in to fix the situation. Acknowledging what a teen is feeling, without judgment, can help them feel supported and more comfortable opening up.

How can family time support healthier social media habits?

Schacter encourages adults to approach social media conversations with curiosity rather than criticism, because teens are less likely to open up when they expect a reprimand. In a video interview, she puts it this way: “What the research shows is that it’s less about quantity of screen time and more about content of what’s happening.”

She also recommends putting phones away at bedtime and carving out regular family time, whether that’s dinner, breakfast or a shared snack, as a chance to reconnect and offer support.

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